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Housewife drags husband to court for starving her of sex

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…As Paediatrician advocates proper antenatal, good sleeping position to reduce risk of cot death***

A housewife, Talatu, on Monday, dragged her husband Nasiru Sulaiman, before a Sharia Court ll, sitting in Magajin Gari, Kaduna State, seeking legal divorce saying she has been sexually starved for five years.

Talatu, 35, who resides in Makera, Kaduna, told the court that Sulaiman denied her sex for five years.

“We have six children but he has refused to enroll them in school. I enrolled them but he pulled them out, saying that I want to change their belief from his school of thoughts.

“For nine months now they have not been to school.

“The house we live in is dilapidated. It is infested by rats, He gives me only N300 to feed his seven children.

“Sometimes I go out to do menial jobs to assist the family but he accuses me prostitution. I can’t continue living with him. I want a divorce,” she said.

The defendant, Sulaiman, denied the allegations made his wife.

”When I left my wife was pregnant. When I came back, she told me that he had an abortion because she does not want to bear any child,” he said.

Sulaiman admitted that he gives his wife N300 daily because he has all the foodstuffs in the house.

The Judge, Murtala Nasir, ordered both parties to settle their problems amicable.

Nasir adjourned the case until Sept. 23 for report on settlement or continuation of hearing.

Also read:  Mother of 8 loses 40-year marriage for denying husband sex

In the meantime, a paediatrician, Dr Okiemute Olibamoyo of  Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), Idi-Araba, says proper antenatal care and good sleeping position can reduce risk of cot-death.

Olibamoyo of the Department of Paediatrics, College of Medicine, LUTH, disclosed this in an interview with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) on Monday in Lagos.

NAN reports that cot death, also known as Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) or crib death, is usually the sudden and unexplained death of a child of less than one year of age.

The paediatrician said that there might be some underlying respiratory dysfunctions and or obstruction of the airways as the implicated cause of cot-death.

According to her, the factors cited as being the causes of it include:  prone sleep position (where the baby sleeps on the  tummy), male sex, maternal smoking, low birth weight or preterm babies.

She added that other factors include:  bed sharing (where babies sleep on the same bed with their parents/caregivers), exposure of the baby to extreme temperatures, low socioeconomic class among others.

On the ways to reduce the risk factors, Olibamoyo said: “Proper antenatal care to the pregnant mother is needed. Avoidance of maternal smoking is important.

“If a baby is born as a preterm and successfully managed, mothers should adhere to all instructions given pertaining to the care of the baby.

“Mothers also must avoid unorthodox child-care practices which may be suggested to her by non-healthcare providers.

“Babies should not be kept in rooms where there are smokers or where they are exposed to smoke such as that from generating sets.

“Babies should not be encouraged to sleep on the same bed as caregivers, but may be in the same room as caregivers.

“Babies should be put to sleep on their backs, not sides,” she said.

According to her, mothers must attend baby clinics regularly and the baby’s room temperature must not be too cold or too hot.

Olibamoyo said that baby’s cot should be firm so that it could reduce the risk factors.

“Nursing mothers must practice exclusive breast feeding which is feeding the baby with breast milk only for the first six months of the baby’s life.

“My advice to mothers is to always follow all instructions from the baby’s healthcare provider.’’

She said that there was not much statistics reporting the prevalence of SIDS in Nigeria.

 

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